Gift of Not Belonging

This is a new book. Condition: Brand New.

The first book to explore the distinct personality style of the otrovert - someone who lacks the communal impulse and does not fit in with any social group, regardless of its members - and to reveal all the advantages of being an otrovert and how otroverts contribute to the world.

If you were the kid who never wanted to go to summer camp, if you prefer spending time with friends one-on-one than going to parties, if you would rather forgo your vacation than travel with a tour group, and if you often engage in acts of silent rebellion against group norms and traditions, you are very likely an otrovert.

Dr Kaminski has been studying this personality style for over 30 years. He explains that, while otroverts enjoy deep and fulfilling one-on-one relationships, within groups they feel alienated, uncomfortable, and alone. Unlike introverts, who crave solitude and are easily drained by social interactions, otroverts can be quite gregarious and rarely tire from one-on-one socialising. And unlike loners, or people who have been marginalised based on their identity, otroverts are socially embraced and often popular - yet are unable to conform with what the group collectively thinks or cares about.

And therein lies the great gifts of being an otrovert. When you have no affinity for any particular group, your sense of self-worth is not conditioned on the group's approval. And, best of all, you know no other way to think other than to think for yourself. The Gift of Not Belonging urges otroverts to embrace their unique gifts, and equips them with the knowledge and tools to thrive in a communal world.

' Kaminski claims to have identified a new, uncommon personality type- the otrovert, expanding the common-knowledge introvert/extrovert binary.'
-Julia Moloney, Sunday Independent

'Kaminski has now come up with a word for people like him- 'otroverts' ... Otroverts are fundamentally non-communal people, and go through life feeling incapable of fitting in ... Kaminski argues, otroverts thrive when they embrace who they are. They must not be harassed to take part, but allowed to revel in their glorious difference.'
-Leaf Arbuthnot, Daily Mail

'Psychiatrist Kaminski debuts with an informative guide to otroversion, a personality type defined by a sense of "nonbelonging" to groups ... In short chapters bolstered by case studies, the author overviews the challenges inherent to a culture that rewards joiners and distrusts those who fail to adhere to social scripts ... Those who march to the beat of their own drum will be especially gratified.'
-Publishers Weekly

Book details and technical specifications

Format: Paperback / softback
ISBN13: 9781761381621
Published: July 2025

Number of pages: 224
Width: 136 mm
Height: 208 mm
Depth: 19 mm

Publisher: Scribe Publications